Day 139: 2017 Highs – EduMan

It’s 2018. 2017 has gone by, and the cyberspace is overflowing with messages of hopes for the upcoming year, reviews of the year that went by and promises for the new year. Here’s my year in review but focused on the major highs and the lows.

EduMan

I knew the man had material to impress way back in 2010-2011 itself, when I had reached out to him for TFI. There was something about him, the energy and the passion that came with his discussions, that was admirable at the least. I should put it out there that it must be those discussions with him while firming up the application for TFI that established my interest in the education sector deeply. So, if it works out, he is on my Vote of Thanks for sure. Even it spirals down, I’m sure he will get a positive mention.

EduMan carries a certain calmness and simplicity about him that is inspiring. For someone like me that is always trying to make her words keep up with her thoughts, I believe that his personality is one to emulate. Over the period of the internship, I saw him as a great leader, a visionary thinker, an avid reader, an inspirational academic, and a great companion.

  • He has taught me to weave the professional and the personal seamlessly so that they are not absolutely discrete and yet do not overstep their roles. This is something I’m still struggling to master in my own life. The man has a smooth way of treading into the professional aspects amidst a personal interaction, and still keeping the conversation contextual.
  • He has also made me extremely conscious about acknowledging and employing skills that people have. After that month with him, I realized how little I share praise for a person’s good deeds. EduMan does not hesitate to endorse quality work or inputs as he sees it, and I think in today’s cynical world, we need more such minds. We need more people celebrating more, even the littlest, successes. With enough positivism, the world might just become a happy place after all.
  • The final learning from my watching EduMan work more closely was how insufficient my network truly was. He was a collector, of people. He had surrounded himself with people that could motivate, teach and help him so that he was protected from any situation that life might throw his way.

He is the first to officially pay me for my editing duties – all based on a silly college editorial team that we were a part of ten years back. He brought to me people and experiences that have enriched my life so far. He has taught me to smile and to goof through it all.

I’m excited for the year ahead and the work that will come our way.

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Day 20: Of overcoming the fear within

A had a major breakthrough in her life on college today. Despite having trained in classical dance for 12 years, she never danced for any event on campus. She always had some fear of failure and rejection within. She was a classic case of the students we’d find in class with some talent that needed a lot of digging and prodding to get out.

Between Ms Greta and me, we were able to prod deep enough and she went up on stage in the department to dance. She did a 3 minute number and walked away with shaking hands and a room full of applause.

Throughout the session, I had to stand right opposite her in the audience, make eye contact and cheer her on, because that’s how fragile her confidence was. I felt like a master puppeteer, moving the right strings and lifting it the right amount to get the perfect twirl.

Is that the powerful feeling that teachers get when they push a student far enough and watch him come out successful?

A danced. When you dancing? And before that, can I finish my meal, please?” Scotch¬†

Gulp, gulp, gulp. Slurrp!